But if you're finding that the words of well wishes aren’t quite flowing, worry not! We’re here with our guide to the perfect Christmas card messages to help you write your season’s greetings just right, whatever the situation and whoever the recipient.
Where To Start
First and foremost, write with sincerity and write from the heart. Take a moment to really think about how you feel for the person you’re writing to. The more personal your message can be, the more well received it’ll be.
Secondly, take a moment to think of how you would like to be written to by the person who you’re sending to. If you can put yourself in the shoes of a recipient, you’ll be able to best judge the tone and the etiquette for your card-writing.
We’ve compiled some handy, ready-made examples which you can use to help write your cards, or take them as a template and apply your own creative tweaks to make sure the sentiment is just right.
If you’re thinking of popping the question this christmas, why not get creative and write it in a card? We say keep it simple and try:
Merry Christmas this year and every year still to come. Will you marry me?
Or if you prefer something more witty:
I got down on one knee for this, so whether it’s a yes or no you’ll need to help me back up anyway. Will you marry me?
Commemorate your first Christmas together as a family with welcoming wishes:
You’re the only gift we’ve ever needed, Merry Christmas little one.
Or think about future Christmases to come:
Merry first Christmas darling, we hope they get happier every year.
Mark your first married Christmas together with extra special sentiment:
Happy Christmas my love – here’s to the first of many more together as husbands in crime.
Or if you’re feeling more playful:
Merry Christmas! Do I still need to get you a present if we’re married?
For when you’ve been together for a little while:
How wonderful it is that we have another happy Christmas spent together, darling.
Or if humour is more your style:
It’s hard to find the perfect Christmas present for you; when we were married you got everything you could possibly need.
If love is in the air this Christmas, be sure to tell your special someone in their Christmas card. Keep it sweet and sincere:
I feel lucky to be spending this Christmas with you in my life. Happy Christmas my love!
Or if you’re a more playful pair:
All I want is for us to be a pair of pigs in blankets today. Merry Christmas!
The age-old conundrum: getting the tone right with the in-laws! Keep it short and sweet whilst making sure it’s full of seasonal cheer:
Wishing you both a Merry Christmas and a healthy and Happy New Year to come!
Or if your relationship is more intimate:
Merry Christmas! I feel so lucky to be part of your wonderful family.
How do you sum up feelings for your lovely mum in a card? Think of all the reasons she’s so wonderful to you:
For all that you’ve done for us this year and every year, thank you Mum. Happy Christmas! We love you.
Or if you prefer something funnier:
Merry Christmas from your favourite child. Love you!
Perhaps you can have some fun with the message in your card for your dad:
I think having me as your child is enough of a gift this year Dad, Merry Christmas!
Or for something more heartfelt:
Happy Christmas Dad, thanks for all you do for us.
Make your new member of the family feel as welcome as possible with a heartfelt holiday greeting:
Have a wonderfully Merry Christmas from us, we’re so glad to have you as part of the family!
Or perhaps something a little less formal:
Merry Christmas to our adopted son/ daughter! We love you!
Inspire your children with some Christmastime magic by writing them a card from Santa himself:
Have a very Happy Christmas from Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner, Blitzen, the elves and me!
Or if you’re feeling more playful:
‘Twas the night before Christmas, and Father Christmas decided he wouldn’t deliver to children with messy bedrooms… better luck next year!
If you’ve had kids away at university or away in different cities, it can be especially important to send a card to let them know you’re thinking of them. Make it heartfelt and speak candidly:
Sending you all the Christmas cheer and happiness from afar this year! We can’t wait to see you soon. Lots of love
Or for something more light-hearted:
Merry Christmas my love — we can’t say the peace and quiet hasn’t been nice!
They might drive you crazy at times, but no-one really knows you quite like your siblings. Keep it funny with what’s (probably) a joke:
Merry Christmas from Mum’s favourite! Love you
Or if you want a more heartfelt message:
Happy Christmas! I’ve missed having you around this year, love you lots.
There are few relationships quite so special as grandparents and their grandchildren. Write from the heart this Christmas:
To my lovely Grandpa and Grandma, sending love and season’s greetings to you both for a wonderfully Merry Christmas.
Or if you haven’t had the chance to see each other recently:
Merry Christmas Nan and Grandad, I can’t wait to see you when we can!
This year more than ever, it’s been tricky to get to see our loved-ones. Speak with love to those who you miss most:
Wishing you the most Happy Christmas from afar. May it be your best yet.
If you know you might be able to see each other soon try:
Have a very Merry Christmas! We’ll have to celebrate twice as jovially next year.
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