They’ve danced, they’ve toasted, they’ve gifted – now it’s your turn. Handwritten wedding thank you cards are one of the most heartfelt (and lasting) ways to let your guests know how much they meant to your day. Whether you’re deep in post-wedding bliss or just beginning your planning, here’s everything you need to know about saying thank you.
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Do people still send wedding thank you cards?
Yes – a wedding thank you card is a tangible way to show your appreciation. In a world of quick texts, digital gestures, and copy-and-paste, a thank you card stands out for all the right reasons. It’s a timeless tradition that speaks volumes: care, time, and genuine gratitude for the people who helped celebrate your day.
Whether it’s for a generous gift, words of advice in your <UNDERLINE guest book, or simply being there, thank you cards are a small but meaningful way to honour the love you received.
- Start with a thank you for their presence or gift
- Mention the specific gift (or gesture) and why it was appreciated
- Add a line about the day itself or looking ahead
- Close with love, warmth, and your names
We think something short-but-sweet like this is perfect, especially when written by hand.
Dear Sasha,
Thank you so much for the beautiful glassware – we’ve already used it for our first dinner as newlyweds! It was such a joy to have you there with us.
Thank you for bringing such love, laughter and fun to our big day.
Warmest wishes,
Alex & Jamie – The new Mr and Mr Daniel-Jones
How long after the wedding should I send thank you cards?
Ideally within three months, but don’t panic. Traditionally, couples have up to twelve weeks after the big day to send their notes. That said, life gets busy, and your loved ones will be sure to understand that. A beautifully written card is always appreciated, even if it's a little late. If you're running behind, moments spent scribing a sincere message is far more valuable than the perfect timeline.
Pro tip: Writing cards for all those you want to thank can take quite a while longer than you may think. Start early by writing a few cards each week (or per day, if you’re feeling ambitious!) and keep pressure low by treating card-writing like a marathon, not a sprint. Be sure to send out all cards at the same time, to avoid any awkwardness or upset!
Who do you send thank you cards to after a wedding?
Simply put: Anyone and everyone who gave their time, effort, love – or all of the above! It can feel daunting when writing out your thank you card list, but remember, the small effort will gain huge appreciation.
Your thank-you list usually includes:
- Guests who attended your big day
- People who sent gifts (even if they couldn’t come)
- Your wedding party: that’s bridesmaids, groomsmen, parents, and any other special guests.
- Suppliers who went above and beyond
- Anyone who hosted hen dos, stag nights, pre-wedding dinners or helped behind the scenes
Remember: small details can be super important to some, so make sure you’re getting the basics right, like spellings and any family updates. If in doubt, check with another loved one or friend for confirmation.
Should I handwrite or type thank you cards?
Handwritten cards – every. single. time. There's something unmistakably personal about seeing someone’s handwriting. It shows care, effort, and consideration. Even if your hand gets a little crampy (spoiler: it will) it’s totally worth it. For larger guest lists, split the writing between partners, tackle a few cards at a time, or make it a fun activity to do together.
Can I include a photo in my thank you cards?
Absolutely – and people love it. Including a photo from your wedding day adds a personal touch guests will treasure. Most modern couples choose to send photo thank you cards with a favourite snapshot from the celebrations printed on the front. It’s a sweet way to share a moment from your day – especially with guests who couldn’t be there in person.
Explore our personalised wedding thank you cards to find a style as beautiful as your day – with options to add your own photo, choose your font, and make each note feel entirely you.
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